L.Michelle's Blog is about lingerie, and loungewear. What styles will fit your body type, the styles men love to see you in, new lingerie that has come out this season, and how to wear it.

Romantic Stories

January 11th, 2010
Love is in the air

Love is in the air

In the spirit of the upcoming Valentine’s Day holiday, I decided it would be fun to share stories with each other of our own experiences with love. Any woman with a love for lingerie, is a romantic at heart. I have seen and fallen in love with pretty much every chick flick movie ever made. I wait with baited breath at every one of my girlfriends engagement stories, and love to ask all of my neighbors how they first met. So I thought we could share our own experiences.

You can tell us anything! How you met, where you got engaged, what your dream wedding would be, the best complement he ever gave you, the most embarrassing thing you ever did in front of your significant other, anything. They don’t have to be elaborate either. Some of the best stories I have ever heard are as simple as “we have 4 kids, have been married for 15 years, and are still in love”. I will start us off.

How I knew he was the one:
My story is about my husband. My husband is not a traditionally romantic man, he is goofy, a workaholic, and brutally honest to point of where he has said to me “those pants make you look fat”. However, he is the most sweet, caring, dedicated, and unconventionally romantic man I have met.

In order to fully understand why the story I am about to share is so important, we have to back up more than 10 years ago to before I met him. To when I was in college. While I was going to school, to become an attorney I worked in a beautiful highend lingerie boutique. I was a sales clerk, and fell in love with intimate apparel and helping women. I loved what I did so much that I changed my major to merchandising, and made it my goal that one day I would have a store as beautiful and romantic as the boutique I had worked in. I continued my career path in intimates and apparel, and always kept it in the back of my mind that one day I would have my own store. Where I could help women fall in love with themselves everyday.

I met my future husband while I was working, he was a handsome developer for the company I was working for as a merchandiser. We had an instant undeniable connection, and starting dating almost immediately. We shared everything, all of our stories, goals for the future, and fears. I eventually told him how much I wanted to have my own store in intimate apparel, and how much I enjoyed helping women. He never said much, just that he thought I would do well at it, and that he hoped I had the chance to accomplish my dream one day.

As the years went on, the discussions of me opening my own business came up more and more. But I never felt that I had the support to start my own business. Then one day, I was having a terrible day at work, and called my boyfriend for comfort. He was very supportive, and simply said, “I think it’s time you started your business, I think you need to do it.” I told him I was scared, and he said “just come home, you can do it, I will help you.” That was one year ago. He backed my dream, and made it possible for me to start Avec L’amour.

He made my dreams come true, and I pleased to say that we will be married 6 months in February.

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Love,
L.Michelle

Special Thank you

January 6th, 2010

I wanted to send a special thank you to all of our wonderful customers. We have had a wonderful holiday season here at Avec L’amour, and hope you did too! Hope to share more with all of you in the upcoming year, 2010.

Love,
L.Michelle

What will you be wearing New Year’s Eve?

December 21st, 2009

New Year’s Eve is traditionally one of the most sexy holidays of the year. Full of great traditions like getting dressed up, drinking champagne, and kissing at the stroke of midnight. This is why New Year’s Eve is my favorite holiday. And this year, I am going to make it my sexiest.

As Christmas is almost here, and I have finally finished my present shopping, I am now looking for something for myself. Something sexy, and fun for me to wear under my New Year’s eve outfit, or for when we get home. This year I am leaning towards something I can wear underneath my New Years dress. There is just something fun about having something hot under your clothes that you know is your little secret soon to be revealed;)

Arianne Tia Teddy

Arianne Tia Teddy

I am thinking of a leopard velvet teddy from Arianne. The Arianne Tia teddy. It is so sexy, with a push-up lined bra cup, high cut leg, and lace thong back. This teddy not only fits incredibly, but when worn with stockings is sure to stop a man dead in his tracks.

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Final Days til Christmas!

December 16th, 2009

It is the final shopping days before Christmas, have you finished all of your shopping? If you are like me, and still scrambling for presents here are some great gift ideas:
For Her:
Get her some cute pj’s. There is no such thing as too much loungewear. We all wear, we all love it, and we all need new stuff to keep our look around the house fresh, and cute. Here are some great styles that she will love!
B-Up Sophie Trends Camisole and Boxer Set

B-Up Sophie Trends Camisole and Boxer Set

B-Up Sophie Trends Camisole and Boxer Set


B-Up Racerback chemise
Nightgowns always falling off your shoulders, or twisting around you at night? Try this beautiful, and soft chemise from B-Up. Fits beautifully, and with it’s racerback cut, and adjustable straps you wont have to worry about it falling off at night.
B-Up Allegria Racerback chemise

B-Up Allegria Racerback chemise


PJ Harlow Mike Silk Boxer Shorts and Charlie Tank
More of a boxers than gown kinda gal but like it sultry. PJ Harlow Mike silk boxers were made for you. Gorgeous, and amazingly comfortable with modal waistband, and silk draw string. Pair it with the PJ Harlow the Charlie tank modal tank, and you have the ultimate boy shorts, with a sexy, sultry appeal.
PJ Harlow Charlie tank

PJ Harlow Charlie tank


PJ Harlow Mike Silk Boxers

PJ Harlow Mike Silk Boxers


For Him:
All you want this holiday season is some alone time with that special someone. Well these items are sure to keep their attention!
Claire Pettibone Audrey lace chemise. Sexy, and romantic, the color of a wine. Looks great on all skin tones. Available in XS-XL at Avec L’amour.
Claire Pettibone Audrey lace chemise

Claire Pettibone Audrey lace chemise


Arianne Kendra Camisole and thong. Feeling wild, and like a vixen. This velvet burnout camisole and thong are sure to make that statement.
Arianne Kendra cami and thong set

Arianne Kendra cami and thong set


See more beautiful and enticing gifts at Avec L’amour. Visit our holidays store, for our detailed picks for the holiday season.

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Gearing up for Holidays, shop at Avec L’amour

November 11th, 2009

Getting ramped up for holiday season with tons of new merchandise from Cosabella, Claire Pettibone, Arianne, and more.
Here is a sneak peek at a few holiday pieces that have just arrived:
If you have found yourself inspired by the television show Mad Men, then these new vintage looking lingerie pieces, are sure to thrill you. The Cosabella Irina is a stunning sheer babydoll with velvet flocking is sure to be a favorite!


If you are looking for a more sexy, sweet number nothing says vintage like the Cosabella Pearl Babydoll. It features a lace bodice, with soft sheer dotted mesh body that flows down your body for a sexy gorgeous fit. I am inspired, and ready for the fake eyelashes, how about you?
These are only a couple of the new items recently added to Avec L’amour, check back often for more holiday inspiring sexy nights.

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Petite Bras, The Little Bra Company

October 29th, 2009

The Little Bra Company Lucia Bra Set

The Little Bra Company Lucia Bra Set


Finally there is a line that is gorgeous and functional for women with petite breasts. For years women like myself have struggled with either no sizes available, or buying bras that look like they were made for their daughters.

This is all about to change, The Little Bra Company designed by Emily Lau addresses the needs of petite women. She takes into account women’s everyday needs, as well as wanting to feeling sexy and sensual.

I wear a 36AA, and have had a terrible time finding any bras that were sexy and fun. I would either have to squeeze myself into a 34A to fill the cups, which would lead to pain from too tight of a band; or wear a 36A which would bag in the cups. It was humiliating, and uncomfortable.

Now, I don’t have to deal with pain or humiliation! I am wearing a 36A from The Little Bra Company, and it fits me perfectly! I just got the Yvonne for a sexieer t-shirt style, and it is so comfortable, and fits so well that I am getting the Lucia(shown at the top of the page) for something sexy, and fun.

These bras are cut with petite sizing in mind. The A cups truly fit more like a AA cup – A cup. The B cups fit a full A cup – B cup. And, you won’t believe the cleavage you will have! These little bras have amazing support, and with minimal padding. They push up what you have to make you look great! I love my new little bras, and am quickly becoming their biggest fan. Shop The Little Bra Company on Avec L’amour, and flaunt your great shape.

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Organize your Lingerie, article featured in InStyle Magazine

October 1st, 2009

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InStyle magazines September 2009 issues features an article on Organizing your Lingerie. The article talks about how to store your lingerie, and keep it looking it’s best. It was a great article, that I wanted to pass on to you ladies. After all if you are going to spend the money to get the merchandise, it is nice to know how to keep it looking it’s best.
Step 1
Toss items that are old or don’t fit. Anything with holes, is stretched out, or just uncomfortable has to go.

L.Michelle’s commentary:
This couldn’t be more true, lingerie should be looked over twice a year just like your clothes. There is different lingerie that goes with every season, so twice a year, try everything on, look in the mirror and decide whether you would be embarrassed if you had to go to the hospital in those skibbies.

Step 2
Know what you need. InStyle’s recommendation is to have 3 everyday bras(seamless smooth cups), 2 bras that match your skin tone(for under sheer tops), 1 black bra(for under dark items), 1 lacy or embellished bra(for special occasions), and 1 strapless(for shoulder baring pieces). Panties should be 10 pairs of your favorite cut.

L.Michelle’s Commentary:
I feel there should be 3-4 everyday bras(smooth cups) that can go under anything, you should have 1-2 nude(for under white), 1 black(for under darks), and 1 fun color(now a days smooth cups can come in a variety of colors. So get your self a pink, red, brown, or blue smooth cup. It will make you feel sexier about your t-shirt bra).

I don’t agree with the amount of panties they are suggesting, or to have just one cut. There is no such thing as having too many panty options, so long as you wear them, and they are comfortable. I typically recommend owning 2 pairs of underwear per bra.
- Your panty drawer should have at least 2 pairs of seamless nude(for under whites)
- At least 2 pairs of seamless black(for under dark colored hugging bottoms)
- 3 pairs of athletic panties(if you are a gym rat and spend more time working out, then 5-7 pairs.
- A handful of sexy comfortable lace/silk thongs/panties/boyshorts(these will go with your everyday bras adding a little something extra, and turn those everyday bras into a set. For example if you have a plain white t-shirt bra, pair it with the Cosabella Never Say Never Cutie in white. Waala! A new sexy set.
- And finally 3-7 comfort panties, for that dreaded time of the month.

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Step 3
Determine where they go. Sort your lingerie by silhouette, color or function. Keep the styles that are most worn at the front, and least worn towards the back. Stack molded, and padded bras flat. Never fold cups inside one another, or you will cause the fabric to ripple. You may however fold your non-padded underwire, or soft bras with the matching panties. Place your bras in silk lined boxes, to keep the soft lacy fabrics from catching on drawers. Separate bras, panties, or different styles of bras from each other. Put panties in a multi-compartment divider.

L.Michelle’s Commentary:
I completely agree with the way to lay your padded, or molded cup bras. You never want to twist those bras, these are your big investment pieces. You wear these on a daily basis, so make sure you spend the money to get the most comfortable, best fitting bra you can, wash them by hand in the basin with Soak fine fabric wash, and definitely lay them flat in the drawer for storage. If you choose to fold your non-padded underwire bras/soft bras, you may run the risk of getting the fabric twisted on the wires. I say go ahead and lay those flat as well. They look prettier, making them more tempting to wear more often.
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I am a huge fan of the multi-compartment organizers. If your drawers are stuffed with all the panties, you will never see all that you have. Since I am recommending more quantity than InStyle magazine, what I suggest is that you get your organizer, and stuff the compartments with more than one pair. In other words put both pair of seamless nudes in the same compartment, put all your black lace in the same compartment, etc. It will still keep you organized, and allow you to see your options, without taking all of your dresser space.
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Step 4
Separate out your workhouses and non-lingerie. Devote one lingerie drawer to the “tool kit” items, this should be support items(thigh slimmers), short slips, sports bras, and exercise tops. Keep chemises on padded hangers in the closet, keeps the wrinkles out.

L.Michelle’s Commentary:
I definitely agree that your items should be seperated out by product category. I recommend thinking of your lingerie drawers like solution compartments, but don’t over think it. Look at it as what is this items role? For example put all support, and accesory items together. All of these items would go into a drawer together: slimmers, NuBra, push up pads, lingerie tape, stockings, and garter belts. Don’t forget your organizers here, so you can see everything.
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I love the suggestion of hanging your chemises/babydolls/gowns on padded hangers. Not only does this keep the items looking nice, but it sets the right mood. When you pull something out of the closet on a pretty padded hanger you automatically feel special, and sexy.
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As for sports bras, and exercise wear these do not belong near your lingerie. These items get really nasty dirty, require a much harsher detergent than your lacy pretties, and just kill the romance of lingerie. Keep the workout utilitarian items in another area. It will keep your lingerie something that makes you feel special about yourself, rather than reminding you to count calories.

The last part of the InStyle article mentioned using drawer liners, and scented candles to keep things smelling nice in your drawers.

L.Michelle Commentary:
While I myself am a huge lover of fine scents, and believe having lightly scented lingerie is a luxury we should all let ourselves have I do not agree with using candles. The scented drawer liners are fantastic, they are pretty, and smell nice, and do not represent any harm to your lingerie. However candles, can get hot, and could leak wax on your fabrics, or flake wax onto your lingerie, which can be almost impossible to get out. I recommend putting scented soaps, or empty perfume bottles in your drawers. You will achieve the desired effect of lightly scented pretties, without running the risk of ruining any of your delicate fabrics. Keep the candles burning in the bedroom to keep the romance in the room, but don’t put them in your drawers.
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Enjoy organizing, you will be glad you did it!
Love,
L.Michelle

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25 Men Surveyed, what lingerie they would love to see you in…

September 18th, 2009

Recently I conducted a poll to get men’s opinions on lingerie, and lougewear. Here is what I found:

1. What would you like to see your significant other wearing to bed at night?

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A. A lacy something, every guy wants his own lingerie model (I recommend: Claire Pettibone Athena Chemise)

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B. My boxers, there is something hot about a women in my underwear (if you don’t want to wear his, try: PJ Harlow Mike Boxer Shorts with the PJ Harlow Charlie tank

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C. Anything she is comfortable in, I really don’t notice what she is wearing at night (I recommend: Arianne Rachel loungewear set, super cute so he is sure to notice from now on, and the ultimate in comfort)

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D. Something comfortable but feminine, save the lace for special occasions (I recommend: Claire Pettibone Bleu Kenya tee, and the Claire Pettibone Bleu yoga pants)


2. What is the sexiest lingerie a woman can wear for you?

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A. Stockings, need I say more (I recommend: Cosabella Ceylon Lace Pushup bra, and the Cosabella Ceylon Lace hotpants, pair this up with some stockings and heels, and wow!)

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B. Cotton, the pure and innocent leads to so much discovery (I recommend: Cosabella Ever Babydoll)

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C. Glamour, a long gown with a high slight, or lace is just the right amount of mystery for me to want to know more (I recommend: Arianne Penelope)

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D. Lace, feminine sexy, sheer, and it tells me she is ready for a good time (I recommend: Arianne Catherine Teddy)


3. What physical feature do you notice first on a woman?

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A. Her legs (I recommend: Arianne Cassandra chemise)

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B. Her eyes (Play up the colors of your eyes, with bringing out your skin tones with flattering colors, I recommend: Claire Pettibone Butterflies tank and Claire Pettibone Butterflies Hipster)

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C. Her breasts (I recommend: Lavit Calista Corset)

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D. Her butt (I recommend: Cosabella Never Say Never Hottie Hotpants)


4. What is the sexiest “card” a woman can play on a first date?

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A. A touch of her bra showing through her shirt, you can’t help but want to see it all (Give him a peek at: Cosabella Never Say Never Sweetie bra)

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B. Stockings and heels, you can’t take your eyes off those legs (for a flattering fit under your dress with your stockings, I recommend: Arianne Jade teddy)

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C. A neck line, it is just the right amount of skin, it gives you a challenge, could you corrupt her? (from outerwear, to night wear, I recommend: Arianne Emma Lace camisole and hipster set)

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D. A great “seat” gets me every time, I hate to watch her leave, but I love to watch her go (for a seamless backside, I recommend: Cosabella Never Say Never Cutie thong for lowrise, or Cosabella Never Say Never Bootie thong for traditional rise)

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The Day I Was Saved by a Silicone Bra

September 14th, 2009

Last week, I was out of town, I was visiting family in Oklahoma.  It is very hot, and humid there.  To say that you feel like you are sitting inside a sauna would be an understatement.  I was only in town for a few days, so I only had the bra I was wearing, and my NuBra which I had brought for wearing with my backless dinner outfit.

When I got to my hotel, I went to set my bag up on the bed, and as I swung my suitcase, my bra strap broke.  I freaked out!  I had to be out the door in 5 minutes, to meet family members.  I couldn’t not wear a bra, it was the middle of the day around 90 some degrees, and so humid that my hair was stuck to my head, like a wet mop!  I didn’t know what to do, I didn’t think a silicone bra was going to stay on with all the sweating that was about to occur, I was going shopping at an outdoor mall.  I was just picturing it, there I am leaning over a sale rack as my bra falls into the pile of 50% off tank tops.

Not to mention, how uncomfortable it would be.  I mean really, plastic, in heat.  My mind instantly flooded to childhood, and wearing jelly sandals, how uncomfortable they were, and how much my feet would sweat.  I had a major dilemma.  So I finally decided I had no choice, I had to put on my NuBra, and hope that nothing bad happened.

So away to the bathroom I went using my NuBra cleanser, I cleaned off my skin, and stuck my silicone bra on.  The automatic reaction was the same as it always is, look at my cleavage:-)  The NuBra is great for adding shape, and fullness to my AA breasts, but that wasn’t the part I was concerned about.  With a big sigh of concern out the door I went.

I can’t tell you how great the NuBra worked out for me that day!  Not only did it stay on, it didn’t slid at all, but it was the perfect bra to wear shopping.  I could try on anything.  Strapless, backless, razorback, anything!  I knew how everything would really look, no guessing how this white sheer organza top would look if only I was wearing a nude bra, or wondering if the strapless dress I tried on would stay up(since I already know from experience that I can’t fill out a strapless without a bra, it falls right down).  It was great, I felt so good about everything I tried on.  And, I got complemented on how nice tops looked on me, I never told them it was my bra that was helping me look that way, I just smiled and said thank you.

So ladies, I can’t tell you enough if you don’t have one yet, you need to get yourselves a NuBra at Avec L’amour it will be your best shopping buddy.

Love,

L.Michelle

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The Duchess Bleu Clair by Claire Pettibone

August 21st, 2009

Introducing the newest Bleu Claire addition to Avec L’amour the Duchess collection.  The Duchess is an adorable loungewear set that is made up of a camisole, and capri pants.  The Duchess cami is adorable with ruffles at the shoulder, v-neck line, and a criss cross in the back.  Combined with the yoga styled Duchess capri pants with drawstring it makes the perfect loungewear.

The Duchess is a great print featuring a romantic print of swirling leaves, vases, and flowers, fit for a Duchess.  The color scheme is a beautiful array of dark to light blues, on a white background.  They would be the perfect honeymoon pajamas!  Pick a set up for the bride if you are heading to her shower, or if you are the bride pick a set up for yourself.  You will love how comfortable you feel lounging around the room, and he will love the way you look.

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